Author Archives: Laura

>a world of Languages

>i just want to document the appreciation that i have for my fellow Columbian classmates. I was sitting in the DEES student lounge the other day working on my ridiculously long, hard dynamics homework when my peers began discussing the emotion of the Bulgarian language compared to that of the English language. It occurred to me, that of the 10 or so people in the room, that the Chinese, Farsi, Bulgarian, French, a Nigerian dialect and Spanish languages were all represented. i am so blessed to be amongst such great diversity.

>the beauty of morningside heights

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Laura has followed and chronicled our summer adventures of living and traveling on the road so poignantly and with such a humorous, realistic voice. I can only hope to write half as beautifully when I guest write on her blog.

I honestly miss reliving my past life every few days through those blog posts. Besides our roadtrip being the opportunity of a lifetime to spend some time together with my best friend, one of the main things Laura and I learned on our trip is the wonderfully beautiful idea that (and im stealing this from Laura’s blog post) the beauty of the States, and our world is not just found in a national park , tropical beach, or historic city, but is lived out everyday —whether it is a 500 mile drive away or right around the corner.

I am a nature girl at heart. I feel most at home when I am barefoot in a field with the mountains as my guardian. This same sentiment is one of the most fundamental things that bond laura and I so closely, as wild girl soul mates if you will. Now I don’t know if you are a loyal reader of camping across America, but if you are then I’m sure you know that I am currently living in Manhattan.

YES MANHATTAN- A CONCRETE JUNGLE !!! Who would have ever though? But I had the great opportunity to get my masters in Climate and Society at Columbia (still staying true to my nature girl instincts). I am learning all about the climate, greenhouse gases, clouds, earth resources, etc. Hey, a girl’s got to learn about it to protect it, right? Anyways. When I first arrived in Manhattan I was unsure of how I would possibly manage to survive in the craziest city on Earth coming from Stonehill’s 375 acre wooded campus. If anyone knows anything about me it’s that I like my trees, my grass, my big sky, my flowers, my trails and my animals. That and that I love to paint landscapes. In fact, the second week of laura and my friendship (dating way back to the year 2006) we crept away into the night to paint a masterpiece (ok, maybe not) using our bare feet, sticks and leaves. Yes, I kid you not. (Laura, btw where is our painting—its gonna go over our fire place whenever we get the chance to live together).

BUT how can I complain about Manhattan? My block is beautiful; on one corner I have the famous Seinfeld restaurant TOM’S and at the other end is the biggest catholic cathedral in the word (unfinished, but still). Riverside Park is a mere three blocks away. The subway station, my 24 hour grocery store, my 24 hour Duane Reade, a post office, Columbia’s campus, a plethora of shops, restaurants, and bars are literally a skip away (a skip being 4 blocks max—my post office is 10 feet to the left of my door).

I am taking the lesson that laura and I so humbly learned on the road—that beauty and adventure is everywhere. And I am lucky with my busy grad student schedule that beauty and adventure are right around the corner.

>rest.

>Thursday’s are the one day I have off from both jobs, so I try to find a genuine balance between productivity and vegging out. This Thursday was no exception, as I found myself both relaxing and getting some stuff done. For instance,


autumn not only equals changing of leaves and cooler temperatures. it also means cooking and baking scrumptious foods like roasted sweet potatoes and pumpkin pie:

I use much of my free-time to cook, since this has always been a hobby of mine. The other night after I came home from the museum, I whipped up a fall-friendly meal for my friends Ibrahim, Dashawn, and Laura. On the menu: stuffed peppers with apple-chicken sausage, cheddar cheese, spinach, and sauteed apples and onions. I am especially digging the pumpkin (after buying a huge can of it at the grocery store), and have used it to make pumpkin oatmeal and the pumpkin bread above. Next venture? Pumpkin black-bean burgers!

Aside from cooking, free-time in autumn is a wonderful chance to go on runs and walks in my neighborhood without wanting to keel over in the 90 degree heat. I live right by Meridian Hill Park, which has hosted a drumming circle for over 30 years. I went a few weeks ago with my friend Laura and hope to go back again when I have off from work:

On the productive side, I have been trying to go for runs on my days off. I miss running so much–its such a stress relief–but I’m oddly finding that I am so sore from waitressing and the last thing I want to do before or after a shift is put more physical stress on my body. Oh well! I’ve been to yoga a few times and have really enjoyed it, but there is just no time! And no money! Oy vey. I’m also trying to find other internships/jobs for the winter and spring, study for the GRE’s, and potentially apply to grad school, all the while keep up on the news and reading for pleasure.

When I do read, I read here:
I’m currently enthralled by A Time to Betray by Reza Kahlili

That couch is where I’m actually laying right now as I type. And it’s where I’m going to now get back to my book before I fall to sleep soundly next to my friends on my nightstand:

-the doll is from my friend Alex, who is from El Salvador. It’s a worry doll-she gave it to me during the final stages of thesis-writing and told me to put it under my pillow.
-the log cabin is an incense burner from the Adirondacks. The scent is a mixture of pine, balsam fir, and smoky wood.
-the bears in the back are also from the ADK’s, and are the base of my table-lamp.
-the odd guy on the right is also a bear I got in Albuquerque. He is supposed to have special powers…

Goodnight!

>new realities

>Sorry that it has been a little while-I swear I am trying my best to keep up with this. I have really been looking forward to writing another post, yet I have been so swamped and exhausted lately that I haven’t had a moment to breathe. Which leads me to realization #1: I actually want a 9-5 job. Now, this is not to say that I want a mindless paper-pushing cubicle job where I sit in my business casual for eight hours minus the lunch break and the staff meetings. Rather, I simply yearn for the ability to be home by dinner time and to have my weekends off. Currently, my schedule is kind of insane. I’ll walk you through it.


1) Wake up at 8:30. Put on coffee. Take a shower. Eat breakfast, watch CNN.
-This is my favorite part of the day, and no matter how early I have to wake up, I make sure I have time for a good breakfast, a hot cup of coffee, and at least 30 minutes to watch the news.

2) Walk to the metro and head to the Smithsonian. Work from 10-3
-This internship varies from being awesome to being…not so awesome. For instance, one of my assignments was to research the Gullah, an African American community that resides in Georgia/North Carolina and are known for preserving more of their African linguistic/cultural heritage than any other African-American community in the U.S. I got to read about this fascinating group for hours, write up summaries of films that we’re showing, and research books that the museum should buy as part of a suggested reading list.
On this flip side, my current project is taking the Smithsonian handbook–a confidential,crazy important 700 page binder–and making 16 replicas for some committee. So let’s do some math: 700 pages x 16 copies = 11,200 pieces of paper that I have to make copies of. And reorganize into the correct order. And re-hole punch (no one told me the copy machine could do that..damnit).

3) Walk to the metro, and head out to Bethesda for work
-I try to read on the metro since I am always too tired to do so when I’m home, but I usually just fall asleep.

4) Work from 4:30-close, which can vary from 10pm to 11:30.
-Light candles, polish silverware, sweep, mop, serve tables, pour wine, constantly sneak pieces of bread and butter, go slightly delirious, hopefully make some money.

5) Usually go out afterwards. This is what kills me in the end, but I am making so many new friends and there is always a lot going on! I have fun, but it all comes with a price. Why? Well, because even though the next day is Saturday, I have work from 8-4:30. And it will be very busy. And I will be very hungover and going on five hours of sleep.

With all this being said, I wouldn’t trade anything for being in D.C. right now. It’s sort of a rite of passage after graduating to submit yourself to a crazy schedule, and I am still enjoying myself immensely. Moreover, it really hasn’t hit me yet that this is LIFE, a life I am choosing for myself, and that I have the ability (more or less) to form it any which way.

This is kind of cool. And crazy.

That’s all the rambling I’ll do for now. For a future sneak peak, I plan on posting realization #2 soon, along with reasons as to why I am loving autumn so far.

Cheers!

>New Homes

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So, I decided I might try to keep this going. I think I got over my initial fear of blogs–just as long as I refrain from telling you about mundane, daily nuances, or start showing you pictures of my children on their first day of school (kidding). Those blogs are the WORST. In any case, I’ll try my best to be witty. Maybe informative. Imaginative. Who knows! For now though, I miss writing for an audience, and a blog seems to be a good way to fulfill this need.


Okay! Well, since you guys followed the life of me and Nic on the road for a month, I guess I’ll do a “where-are-they-now?” type thing. My dear friend Nicole is up in Morning Side Heights in Manhattan–a far far far 300 miles from me. Miss. Intelligent is getting her M.A. in Climate and Society at Columbia University; the program is a year long and allows her to conduct her own field study/research next summer anywhere in the world! She is also interning at the Earth Institute with their tropical agriculture program. I really wish I understood more of what this all means, buuuut I don’t. You should e-mail her and ask yourself! ncrescimanno@gmail.com

As for me, I am finally settled in a new house (as of yesterday…the white one pictured above) and really feel like I can finally take life by the reigns. I moved to College Park, MD about a month ago to start my internship with the Smithsonian African Art Museum. I lived in Danielle’s basement living room for most of September while I looked for housing in DC. While College Park was convenient, I am so happy to finally be in the district.

This was my room in MD–quaint, but as you can see, I didn’t have a door. Or windows.
Here is the entrance. Not quite burglar proof.

Here is my room now; I’m not totally unpacked or decorated, but you’ll get the jist:


I’m going to find out if I can paint the walls, in which case, there will be a 30% chance that I actually will. For now, I am just happy to have some real sunlight.

I live with three dudes, which is awesome. They are 25,31, and 32. They all have real jobs and are super friendly and chill. Hopefully they’ll become a big-brother figure for me. I also live with a girl, her name is Zoe:

So, on top of interning, I am also a server at Le Pain Quotidien. While I’ve waitressed before and KNOW how much I despise it, the money is good and everyone at the establishment is super awesome. Le Pain and its frenchness attracts many French West-Africans, so a good portion of the wait-staff, along with one of my managers, is African. So between the museum and the restaurant, I am surrounded by the love, comfort, and familiarity of all things African. I couldn’t ask for anything more.

As I wrap this up, I realize that while I said I would refrain from writing about mundane shit, I just posted pictures of my bedrooms. At this rate, I’ll post a few more of the house (for you, mom) and then promise that the next post will be more exciting. Maybe.

I’m off to explore my new neighborhood!
(you cant see it, but there is a beer tap attached to that fridge.)

>DAY 26

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Discovering the Multitude of Beauty

“At the foot of the mountain, the park ended and suddenly all was squalor again. I was once more struck by this strange compartmentalization that goes on in America — a belief that no commercial activities must be allowed inside the park, but permitting unrestrained development outside, even though the landscape there may be just as outstanding. America has never quite grasped that you can live in a place without making it ugly, that beauty doesn’t have to be confined behind fences, as if a national park were a sort of zoo for nature.”

Bill Bryson


As our adventures come to a close, I have realized something that I did not fully understand while on the road: the variety of beauty we experienced, from inside the gates of national parks in Colorado and Utah, to the loneliness and scarcity of the highways cutting through Nebraska, to the vibrant colors and culture in Albuquerque and Nashville.

Where we slept and what we saw was also an assortment: from the comfort of our families homes in Colorado, to sketchy Motel 6’s for $30 a pop, to the simplicity and peace found in our tent. From the Bill Clinton Museum in Arkansas to the National Smithsonian in DC, the red rocks and dust of Utah to the snow capped mountains in Colorado. Every day we woke up and drove somewhere completely new, completely naive as to what was in store 500 miles down the road.

The only thing that remained a constant was the oatmeal, which also turned out to be a motif in this blog. Woops.

In any case, I think Mr. Bryson makes a good point. The natural beauty of the United States does not have to be confined to its parks, and as Nicole and I experienced first hand, it most certainly isn’t. Still, I cannot disregard that some of the most beautiful scenery I witnessed was in the Rockies, Moab, and Canyonlands. All in all, I think our combination of parks and cities, small towns and suburbs, was what gave us a balanced view of America’s splendor.

When I skyped Nicole last night–who’s now an odd 300 miles away– we were talking about this blog, and how we’d feel more sad today than we did driving back over the bridge and on to Long Island nearly three months ago. Sometimes in the moment you don’t realize how lucky you are to be where you are, and the reality of what you’re experiencing and its termination doesn’t really hit you until months later.

Together, we reminisce about our adventures, and daydream about where and when we can get back on the road.

In due time.

>DAY 25

>Final Days: the last picture of us not taken in New York…


I am hesitant to write this blog post, since I know it is one of our last. It will also be about our last adventure on the road, since the final day consisted mainly of driving home through shitty turnpike traffic. I’ll probably just spill my heart out about how much I love Nicole, road trips, freedom, frugality, dirt, and tents anyway.

In any case, here we go. Even with our 700 miles of driving the day before (which I think was actually our longest stint), we still had a full day of various adventures. Mine started a little earlier than Nicole’s. Somehow, Danielle has this magical power to convince me to run with her– I woke up at 7:30 to bang out a “comfortable” six miles (she ran seven, I refused to go on). I was pretty surprised at how I felt; normally six miles isn’t too terrible for me, but I hadn’t ran in about a month, changing up my routine exercise from running to a mix of hiking, scrambling up rocks, and sitting in cars. Still, my legs felt good and my body wasn’t in shell-shock. Hooooray.

After showering and breakfast (I had oatmeal, why the hell not), Nicole, Danielle and I hopped on the metro and headed into DC. Sadly, Nic and I were actually splitting up: she was meeting a friend to check out some art galleries, and Danielle and I were going to the zoo! I aint gonna lie, it was weird leaving Nicole. This was the second time that I really missed her on the trip–the first being when I was bleaching Happy’s pool in Arizona while she was inside making raw-vegan oatmeal.

Nonetheless, Danielle and I had a wonderful time at the zooooo. We made some animal friends, of course.


After a fun afternoon with lions, crabs, monkeys and butterflies, we headed to the grocery store to pick up some food for a small BBQ back at home. We got some burgers, hotdogs, veggie burgs, assorted veggies, and beans….along with a decent amount of beer. We reconvened with Nicole and started cooking away! Danielle had a few friends over, and we enjoyed our food out on the back porch. Evening turned into the night, and the beers took over as the main guest. I think that these past few weeks hit Nic and I at that very moment, and I must say that intoxication mixed with exhaustion is an…odd feeling. We mustered up what energy we had to go to the bars, and while it was fun for a bit, we did not last long.

Here was the final sip I took with Danielle before deciding I could not stay awake any longer.

We stopped on our way home to eat some drunken fried ravioli (yum?) and then enjoyed a nice 30 minute stroll through campus to get back to the house. We passed out soon after, in a bed, together, for the last time.

>DAY 24

>Entering the Eastern Time Zone: Feels Too Close to Home


We woke up around 7 am our second morning in Nashville- a good four hours earlier than the previous day. We knew we had a loooong day of driving ahead of us, and wanted to make it to one of our final destinations before dark.

Well, even with the early wakeup, the sunset still beat us to Washington DC. This picture was taken somewhere in Virginia, towards the end of our 700 mile driving stint.

I am trying to remember back to what this day of driving was like, and one of the memories that sticks out most clearly is how I felt when we crossed into the Eastern Time Zone. This happened somewhere in Eastern Tennessee, which is obviously a good distance from home. Still, just the fact that we were technically back in the “East” made me feel like I was steps away from the GW bridge, one giant leap from guidos and japs and really good cream cheese.

I couldn’t believe it was only a week ago that Nic and I climbed up the boulders that enclosed Happy Oasis Farm in Arizona, gazing out at miles and miles of desert- feeling so far away from anything.

Now were were at a one-star restaurant somewhere in Virginia, splitting a veggie wrap and chocolate brownie sundae and taking turns walking around the premises to stretch our legs. We were a mere two hours from DC, yet were reluctant to keep driving east. It felt too soon, too rushed. That being said, we had a bed to sleep in two hours east, and I was eager to see my best friend Danielle–whose house we were staying at.

We got to Danielle’s just before 10pm, and I think we were asleep by 11.




>DAY 23

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The Loveless Cafe: Certainly Not Devoid of Love

Since we had such a late night, Nic and I did not find ourselves eager to get out of bed with the sunrise. Plus, there were no mountains to climb in Nashville, so we let ourselves sleep in and let our appetites do the climbing instead. By around 11am, we were ready to indulge in southern comfort food, so we browsed the interwebs for some of Nashville’s best kept secrets.

We stumbled upon this place online: The Loveless Cafe. It wasn’t until I saw Loveless featured on the Travel Channel two months later did I realize how famous it was; still, whether featured on television or not, it only took one meal for Nic and I to realize this restaurant was the real deal. Just humor me and check out the menu. And then drool along with me. MENU!

We had a breakfast feast that included homemade biscuits with jam and butter, french toast, eggs, grits, and mimosas. The biscuits were absolutely incredible, and I must say I am grit’s newest fan. If I go back–when I go back–I definitely need to try some fried chicken.


After we ate, we went into the cafe store, Hams and Jams. We perused the aisles, checking out an assortment of books (see above), some bacon-scented air fresheners, and biscuit mixes.

After our lovely brunch, we headed back into the heart of Nashville. We soon learned how expensive cowboy boots could be, and that people are out drinking whiskey and playing live music no matter what time of the day. We also encountered a fair amount of Elvis paraphernalia, seeing as Memphis is only two hours west.



After walking around for a few hours to digest all those damn biscuits, we got back into the car and went searching for the Grand Ol Opry. We finally found it, but due to the harsh flooding that occurred about a month back, the venue was still closed. We drove back to check out the Country Music Hall of Fame instead, but it was unfortunately closing soon for the day. We loitered in the museum store for thirty minutes, and decided to call it a day.


>DAY 22

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A Splendid Coincidence

After our stomachs were filled with Sonic fast-food, we said goodbye to both Little Rock and Knipper and got back in the car. Where to next? 400 miles east to Nashville, Tennessee!

Nicole’s good friend Devin and a few other Stonehill kids were also driving around the US; they rented an RV and were going on tour to promote a new CD. Nic decided to call Devin to ask him if he had passed through Nashville yet, and if so, to recommend some places to check out. Turns out they were ALSO headed to Nashville, and had two shows that evening! We were really excited to see some familiar faces, hear good music, and explore a new city with friends (that were under the age of 40, might I add).

The first bar we went to had an open-mic; four performers would sit on stage and then they’d go down the line and back, singing their little country hearts our and strummin on their guitars. I soon learned that people are TALENTED in Nashville, and while country music may not be my thing, I did appreciate their musicality. Also, almost all of them had a little story to tell before their song, which always went something like this: “hey ya’ll, I’m from a small town in Alabama (or Tennessee, Mississippi, or Arkansas), and this here song is bout tryin to make it in the big city.” Most songs also had to do with love, God, southern food, or county fairs.

After Devin and his friends performed, we went to another bar that lured a younger crowd-looots of southern sweet hearts with cowboy hats, really tight jeans, and really big butts. We listened to more live music, marveled at the fact you can smoke cigarettes inside, and slowly fell in love with this unique city.

We drove home at around 3am (way past our bedtime) and I got pulled over for the first time EVER right on Broadway downtown. I forgot to put my lights on…my bad. What can I say, the city lights were just so bright! During the whole ordeal, Nic was pretty inebriated in the passengers seat, so she was laughing and gladly offering to pay for the ticket. Which I didn’t even get. Hooza!

More about our following day in Nashville soon, which included biscuits and grits, whiskey saloons, and the grand ol opry.